Independent woman πŸ™‹πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

All the ladies who independent throw your hands up at me πŸ™‹πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

If you didn’t already have that song in your head by reading the title – you do now, thank me later.

Beyonce is most certainly the queen in all senses and is all for power to the female; even after it came out that her husband has cheated on her in the past, she still portrays confidence and being independent like no other.

Recently another well known scandal has been Khloe Kardashians baby daddy allegedly cheating on her.

Now I’m sorry but 100% the first thing that springs to my mind is THERE IS NO HELLA HOPE FOR ME IN THE WORLD IF THESE CRAZY ASS MEN BE CHEATING ON THESE ANGELS?!

So all these scandals and obviously well known occasions of people cheating on each other – (male and female I may add, both are guilty) just got me thinking for this post.

Is coming across as a super independent person a turn on or a turn off? Does being independent in a relationship make your partner feel unwanted or is it needed? Does your confidence take a knock if you have been cheated on or can you still be independent?

Being confident and independent is always something I think about when meeting a new partner. Is it daunting for someone to approach you if you’re giving off alla the feels that you can get by on your own?

We could be the most confident person in the whole entire world or feel 2ft tall some days – but does the way we carry ourselves affect a potential or current relationship?

I wouldn’t class myself as confident 24/7 but I would however say I’m independent.

My independency would be more in the sense of I can make my own decisions, I can go places on my own, I can buy my own shit, I rely on myself.

is that because I am single and that’s all I know? πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

If any brave man does approach me one day at least I know I can safely say I’ll be going into something as an independent woman.

Speak soon,

Lotsa love

AG xxo

He’s just not that into you

This is a bit of a different post for me, but after reading the secret recently, (total game changer by the way; get on it!) i have tried to take a different approach in my day to day attitude and be a lot honest with myself.

On the positive train me πŸ™‹πŸ»

Anyway, I am far from any sort of expert on relationships. So far away it’s nearly invisible to me. But we have all been with that boy/girl that you just don’t know who what where when. It can take a lot of being pissed off and you’re mates slapping you silly before you realise it’s just not happening. But us gals try to help eachother out as much as possible.

“You can do better, tell him to f**k off”

Something like that basically right? Right. 

Reading something Infront of you can click a lot quicker than someone saying it. So to save yourself and your friends the time to give you that lecture here are 5 tell tale signs that he’s just not that into you…

  1. They rarely contact you

You ether wanna talk to someone or you don’t. Basically that’s all it boils down too

2. Your ‘relationship’ doesn’t progress 

You’re staying in the same situation or even in reverse. It’s going nowhere because he doesn’t want it too. “He’s not ready” or “needing space” is he because he is scared to get close.



3. He flirts with  you as well as everyone else 

Some people are natural flirts πŸ’πŸ» haha no but serious if he’s flirting with you who says he isn’t flirting with every other becky when you’re not about? Social media ruins lives but when he’s “liking” every other girls profile pics; uh huh honey.

4. You feel confused 

Overthinking everything constantly and feeling confused by your situation. NOT INTERESTED.

5. He doesn’t take you out

Every girl in world deserves to be took on dates. Netflix and chill just doesn’t cut it.

Gals we’ve all been here; I just thought I would do my part in helping you avoid guys like this, if he behaves like this you’s aren’t gonna be the next Kim and Kanye.

Speak soon,

Lotsa love 

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