How to be single?

If there was anything I could confidently write about, it would be this.

I recently just re watched the name say film (if you haven’t seen so – do.) 

And yes my life is not going out every night and having one night stands in New York City before we go any further… 🙄

But does that mean that’s all being single is?

Single to me is learning life lessons, learning how to be on your own confidently and happily. Being able to fend for yourself, hammer that nail into the wall and hang that self love quote on your wall girl.

I have reached the mature age of  25 without being in a single solid relationship I’ve a skill of picking a select few “headfucks” that have cracked my black heart…. just a little.

Am I embarrassed by that? Maybe sometimes, but am I a lot more proud of myself to say I can do and have done everything for myself the last 25 years? Hell yes. 

I have watched some of my beautiful best friends go through the wars with their other halves, give up majority of their time and life with them, cry over them, fight with them, call them everything under the sun so dependent on them they don’t even know how to change a lightbulb material. 

But us girls have an extraordinary ability to round the troops and wash them tears away of your best friend when they need you, agree with them that their now ex boyfriend was the worst mistake ever, wack on the “im over it face” and accompany it with a killer outfit. 

The jist of this post is really for anyone who is afraid to be “single” because the truth is you will always have the strongest support system around you, and yes the word single is an analogy of the word alone but we need to see that the ability to be happy and alone is one of the strongest powers you can have.

….And if you’re afraid of being single on your own, I’ll always be right beside ya 😉

Speak soon,

Lots love

AG xxo

“New year, new me” booshit…

We all absolutely hate that cliche new year new me crap, right? 
As much as we all have good intentions and are necking green coloured smoothies for the first week… month for really keen people the resolutions slowly slip into distant memories. I try to make more doable and realistic goals for me.

Everyone will have a complete range of “goals”  for 2017 but nevertheless, write them down and keep them somewhere – even in your phone and check back every once and a while and see how they are going! 
– Progress myself in work life

– Get back to committed gym life & food prep

– Visit London again 

– Do more things that scare me 

– Spend as much time with good friends and family as possible

– Learn the meaning of going for “just a few” 🤔

– Laugh more than cry

– Continue to treat myself whenever I feel fit to do so 💁🏻

– Go on more road trips 

– Try not to be totally single and boring forever and ever; embrace this mid 20s stage of life

Have you gals made any resolutions or goals for this year? 

Let me know what you think of mine!

Speak soon,

Lotsa love

AG xxo

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