Independent woman 🙋🏻‍♀️

All the ladies who independent throw your hands up at me 🙋🏻‍♀️

If you didn’t already have that song in your head by reading the title – you do now, thank me later.

Beyonce is most certainly the queen in all senses and is all for power to the female; even after it came out that her husband has cheated on her in the past, she still portrays confidence and being independent like no other.

Recently another well known scandal has been Khloe Kardashians baby daddy allegedly cheating on her.

Now I’m sorry but 100% the first thing that springs to my mind is THERE IS NO HELLA HOPE FOR ME IN THE WORLD IF THESE CRAZY ASS MEN BE CHEATING ON THESE ANGELS?!

So all these scandals and obviously well known occasions of people cheating on each other – (male and female I may add, both are guilty) just got me thinking for this post.

Is coming across as a super independent person a turn on or a turn off? Does being independent in a relationship make your partner feel unwanted or is it needed? Does your confidence take a knock if you have been cheated on or can you still be independent?

Being confident and independent is always something I think about when meeting a new partner. Is it daunting for someone to approach you if you’re giving off alla the feels that you can get by on your own?

We could be the most confident person in the whole entire world or feel 2ft tall some days – but does the way we carry ourselves affect a potential or current relationship?

I wouldn’t class myself as confident 24/7 but I would however say I’m independent.

My independency would be more in the sense of I can make my own decisions, I can go places on my own, I can buy my own shit, I rely on myself.

is that because I am single and that’s all I know? 🤷🏻‍♀️

If any brave man does approach me one day at least I know I can safely say I’ll be going into something as an independent woman.

Speak soon,

Lotsa love

AG xxo

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You okay hun?

I sat down to write this post and sort of didn’t really know what exactly I was trying to say.

I find I don’t like to do a “dear diary” inspired blog post but now and then sometimes, you just need to pen shit down.

The main jist of this post is Am I okay?

I don’t mean in it in the sense of am I feeling sad, or down I just ask myself that question at least once a week and more than likely it’s me taking the piss out of myself.

As my 26th birthday draws closer I’m finding myself taking the piss out of my life more.

Do I have all the stereotypical things I’m meant to at this age?

All arrows point to NO.

I’m making no moves on leaving the family home, I don’t have a partner but am I happy in myself?

All arrows on this front point to YES.

Of course I would love to have my own place with my own boyfriend and be living the high life fashion career I want; but in reality I’m not financially stable enough to live on my own. Any boy that shows interest in me I literally run the other direction. On the job front I am content and while this is happening I’m making moves on making my name successful.

When I listen to some of my more successful friends with their dreamy relationships I definitely feel left out and sad for a minute but the next breath I’ve forgotten about it and realise that if and when all these things are meant for me they will arrive.

In the mean time, I’m gonna concentrate on me, owning every colour suit there is and making memories with every single amazing person in my life.

So am I okay?

Yeah babes I’m just doing me.

Speak soon,

Lotsa love

AG xxo