Independent woman 🙋🏻‍♀️

All the ladies who independent throw your hands up at me 🙋🏻‍♀️

If you didn’t already have that song in your head by reading the title – you do now, thank me later.

Beyonce is most certainly the queen in all senses and is all for power to the female; even after it came out that her husband has cheated on her in the past, she still portrays confidence and being independent like no other.

Recently another well known scandal has been Khloe Kardashians baby daddy allegedly cheating on her.

Now I’m sorry but 100% the first thing that springs to my mind is THERE IS NO HELLA HOPE FOR ME IN THE WORLD IF THESE CRAZY ASS MEN BE CHEATING ON THESE ANGELS?!

So all these scandals and obviously well known occasions of people cheating on each other – (male and female I may add, both are guilty) just got me thinking for this post.

Is coming across as a super independent person a turn on or a turn off? Does being independent in a relationship make your partner feel unwanted or is it needed? Does your confidence take a knock if you have been cheated on or can you still be independent?

Being confident and independent is always something I think about when meeting a new partner. Is it daunting for someone to approach you if you’re giving off alla the feels that you can get by on your own?

We could be the most confident person in the whole entire world or feel 2ft tall some days – but does the way we carry ourselves affect a potential or current relationship?

I wouldn’t class myself as confident 24/7 but I would however say I’m independent.

My independency would be more in the sense of I can make my own decisions, I can go places on my own, I can buy my own shit, I rely on myself.

is that because I am single and that’s all I know? 🤷🏻‍♀️

If any brave man does approach me one day at least I know I can safely say I’ll be going into something as an independent woman.

Speak soon,

Lotsa love

AG xxo

Sea me, sea you 👀

I know I’ve just chatted about how ready I am for autumn over on my Wccfw post…

But I am just back from a lil late sunny holiday (sunny part questionable tbf before you judge my lack of tan 😢)

I wanted to use this post to show off this outfit as it is a co-ord (and well we all know by now the love there);

but also to address the “body confidence debate” with females.

I think we all already know every girl will have flaws and favs with their body and how confidently they can overcome them. I would say I am happy enough in my skin but there are definitely massive parts of me i lack confidence in, however much I let them show is another matter.

I seen so many beautiful girls on my holiday and on my social media sites over the summer who just absolutely rocked whatever they wanted, which to me deserves an around of applause. I also seen a lot more people talk about their lack of confidence or celebrating their self love. Both massively brave things to do.

Stereotypically “curvier” girls are not meant to be confident enough to rock a bikini or swimsuit at the pool or beach and everyone will be drooling over that amazingly thin girls body. However if I’ve learnt anything this year it could be the “skinniest”  girl at the corner of the room that isn’t happy in herself and that curvy girl rocking everything  is oozing with self love. Both of these girls will be amazing inside and out and sometimes everyone needs that little helping hand to express their body issues more.

Basically anyone and everyone could be happy or unhappy with themselves and we will never know. A basic post or selfie for someone could be a massive deal to another. So for next summer – or anytime really let’s embrace and celebrate all the babes who aren’t afraid to be them, wear what they want when they want and rock what they have! 💁🏻

Earrings & sandals – eBay 

Two piece – topshop sale 

You got this gals.

Speak soon,

Lotsa love

AG xxo