How to be single?

If there was anything I could confidently write about, it would be this.

I recently just re watched the name say film (if you haven’t seen so – do.) 

And yes my life is not going out every night and having one night stands in New York City before we go any further… πŸ™„

But does that mean that’s all being single is?

Single to me is learning life lessons, learning how to be on your own confidently and happily. Being able to fend for yourself, hammer that nail into the wall and hang that self love quote on your wall girl.

I have reached the mature age of  25 without being in a single solid relationship I’ve a skill of picking a select few “headfucks” that have cracked my black heart…. just a little.

Am I embarrassed by that? Maybe sometimes, but am I a lot more proud of myself to say I can do and have done everything for myself the last 25 years? Hell yes. 

I have watched some of my beautiful best friends go through the wars with their other halves, give up majority of their time and life with them, cry over them, fight with them, call them everything under the sun so dependent on them they don’t even know how to change a lightbulb material. 

But us girls have an extraordinary ability to round the troops and wash them tears away of your best friend when they need you, agree with them that their now ex boyfriend was the worst mistake ever, wack on the “im over it face” and accompany it with a killer outfit. 

The jist of this post is really for anyone who is afraid to be “single” because the truth is you will always have the strongest support system around you, and yes the word single is an analogy of the word alone but we need to see that the ability to be happy and alone is one of the strongest powers you can have.

….And if you’re afraid of being single on your own, I’ll always be right beside ya πŸ˜‰

Speak soon,

Lots love

AG xxo

He’s just not that into you

This is a bit of a different post for me, but after reading the secret recently, (total game changer by the way; get on it!) i have tried to take a different approach in my day to day attitude and be a lot honest with myself.

On the positive train me πŸ™‹πŸ»

Anyway, I am far from any sort of expert on relationships. So far away it’s nearly invisible to me. But we have all been with that boy/girl that you just don’t know who what where when. It can take a lot of being pissed off and you’re mates slapping you silly before you realise it’s just not happening. But us gals try to help eachother out as much as possible.

“You can do better, tell him to f**k off”

Something like that basically right? Right. 

Reading something Infront of you can click a lot quicker than someone saying it. So to save yourself and your friends the time to give you that lecture here are 5 tell tale signs that he’s just not that into you…

  1. They rarely contact you

You ether wanna talk to someone or you don’t. Basically that’s all it boils down too

2. Your ‘relationship’ doesn’t progress 

You’re staying in the same situation or even in reverse. It’s going nowhere because he doesn’t want it too. “He’s not ready” or “needing space” is he because he is scared to get close.

3. He flirts with  you as well as everyone else 

Some people are natural flirts πŸ’πŸ» haha no but serious if he’s flirting with you who says he isn’t flirting with every other becky when you’re not about? Social media ruins lives but when he’s “liking” every other girls profile pics; uh huh honey.

4. You feel confused 

Overthinking everything constantly and feeling confused by your situation. NOT INTERESTED.

5. He doesn’t take you out

Every girl in world deserves to be took on dates. Netflix and chill just doesn’t cut it.

Gals we’ve all been here; I just thought I would do my part in helping you avoid guys like this, if he behaves like this you’s aren’t gonna be the next Kim and Kanye.

Speak soon,

Lotsa love 

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