All the ladies who independent throw your hands up at me 🙋🏻♀️
If you didn’t already have that song in your head by reading the title – you do now, thank me later.
Beyonce is most certainly the queen in all senses and is all for power to the female; even after it came out that her husband has cheated on her in the past, she still portrays confidence and being independent like no other.
Recently another well known scandal has been Khloe Kardashians baby daddy allegedly cheating on her.
Now I’m sorry but 100% the first thing that springs to my mind is THERE IS NO HELLA HOPE FOR ME IN THE WORLD IF THESE CRAZY ASS MEN BE CHEATING ON THESE ANGELS?!
So all these scandals and obviously well known occasions of people cheating on each other – (male and female I may add, both are guilty) just got me thinking for this post.
Is coming across as a super independent person a turn on or a turn off? Does being independent in a relationship make your partner feel unwanted or is it needed? Does your confidence take a knock if you have been cheated on or can you still be independent?
Being confident and independent is always something I think about when meeting a new partner. Is it daunting for someone to approach you if you’re giving off alla the feels that you can get by on your own?
We could be the most confident person in the whole entire world or feel 2ft tall some days – but does the way we carry ourselves affect a potential or current relationship?
I wouldn’t class myself as confident 24/7 but I would however say I’m independent.
My independency would be more in the sense of I can make my own decisions, I can go places on my own, I can buy my own shit, I rely on myself.
is that because I am single and that’s all I know? 🤷🏻♀️
If any brave man does approach me one day at least I know I can safely say I’ll be going into something as an independent woman.